We stopped in previous part
at their marriage and Anu’s aspiration about her husband….after that….

Adi is all set for his
lifetime experience, his first night…he is quite thrilled… basically he is
excited as there is lot of mysteries still he have about Anu. Even while having
sath phera and tying a mangal sutra..it was such a rush ,,that he could not
enjoy that special moment like looking at her eyes saying  I love
u …bending forward near her face and his hand around her neck  for tying knot, looking at her anxious face
and slight smile ..and checking special knot is fixed well for lifetime…but Adi
now is surrounded by his friends…in Adi’s 
mind the one thing he is thinking is when clock would show 9 pm.

9 pm…sharp…Adi eyes get
struck on clock …he is ready to be called for much awaited moment….Anu here is trying
to hold back her tears, as she is can’t cry here…her eyes are constant battling
with tears ,to not come out…she is just wanted to get out of the ladies
surrounded around her…and suddenly she is given a glass of milk…she understood
time has come…as innocent Anu ,she realizes that’s what she saw happening  in that serial like {first milk ,,then share.
he drinks half and she completes the glass…then..} …she takes the glass in 
hand and says to herself “samaj gayi”…here adi tells to himself...”Arre
yaar…when this people would call me…”..Adi sneaks to bedroom checks everything
is perfect …The jasmine flowers on bed...rose on side…he sprays two shots of
room fresher…while spraying ,suddenly he finds her on door with glass of
milk…both eyes are struck…

 Finally milk with two spoons
of complan, kesar, badam and sugar is handed over…Anu is tense, Adi is
conscious in front of her while drinking milk…in rush...He drink whole milk,
then he realizes that’s’ not the way its done. He tells to himself...Which was
quite audible to her..”half dena padatha hai na..”…anu smiles slightly. She says”chalega”…Adi
hears her voice for first time…Adi is embarrassed, and things he ruin this
moment too. He goes near almari…Anu hurriedly takes glass and try to find one last
drop of milk in glass...hehehe patni dharma…but
for her surprise, not even drop was there…

 Anu takes a position in bed,
Adi get closer ….Adi ask to his mind “bath karna hai kya, ya??” Anu simply
finding this moment strange, she is with a man in a room, the one who is still
stranger … {just one knot of mangal sutra made his presence legal isn’t it}…Adi
keeps his hand over her… watching her lines like a astrologer…Anu is feeling nervousness…strange
things getting her mind like images of her parents… hold back tears comes
out…she cant control her tears and starts crying loudly. Adi is surprised he
don’t know, how to console her…as he is never consoled anybody before, he
usually console himself…Anu is not in mood stopping. She was crying loudly...it
can be heard outside their room...There is knock on the door…Adi thinks best
thing is to ask her Amma to calm her down…he opens door ..His mother rushes to
crying Anu…asks Adi...”tune kya kiya,”…Adi in question mark “kuch nahin “…Adi’s
mother ask him to sleep in her room...he is surprised that’s not that way it is
… mother consoles her and make her sleep …here adi looking from window and
rewinds whole scene… checks what mistake he would have did…he realizes it would
be milk.

 Next day, Anu is quite happy
as …she realizes she has got a mother in mother-in -law...Its quite strange as
that’s not the way ,she seen her disturbing serials on TV. She tells to her
mind …hope this surprises are reality... Anu had a feeling that she has left
her down as wife, and what Adi would have thought about this…she calls her
friend Riya…to have consult her in this issue.. Riya tells to throw her village
girl attitude and be cool like city girl or he would not be happy… Riya tells
her few rules 1] Anu not restrict any move from Adi, 2] don’t be shy and help
him whatever he does…As we know, unlikely situation their relation have Adi
like more village girl attitude….Adi here was listening the heated debate...quite
controversial which men like to talk more…infidelity of wife’s…we all have at
least one friend who talks without thinking about situation and just
blabber…Sudhir is one of them. Adi was quite listener to Sudhir, at last Sudhir
goes on challenging his friend that every women have past. Sudhir not even
think that his dear friend is just married...Adi leave the place…he tells to
his mind I think I am lucky. She is so simple village girl.

 Sun is went for break of 12
hours, shifting his duty to moon…Adi and Anu could not even talk to each other
just some passing smiles and eye contact in between whole battalion of relatives.
Both are waiting for clock ticking at 10 pm…Anu is handed over with glass
again, this time she have bit smile in her face. she tells to herself this time
I would not disappoint him…here Adi is preparing himself to be cool…and telling
himself he have to drink half of glass not full…he again fires two shots of
room fresher in room…Adi thinks it would be quite difficult that something
would happen today as she so shy….Anu is in room now with glass, this time Adi
ask Anu to drink first…Adi have heard somewhere “ladies first”… Anu just stops
at half, gives back to Adi …he completes the milk. But find sugar less…its o.k…he
says to his himself…

 Adi takes Anu’s hand in his hand,
looks at her… Anu is shy…she is still not very comfortable…but Riya’s advice
comes in her mind…she try not be shy and be perfect wife for him. First kiss of
her life… Whole body of her electrify …She still try not to react…Anu is working
now on Riya’s advice…Adi is surprised he expected some “no” ….some shyness from
Anu…kiss goes on...Anu try to be cool…that’s what she feels like city girl…innocent
isn’t it…inside she want to resist as any ordinary girl and she want to talk to
Adi for long time till sunrises… know him and want to becomes easy with him.
But it is too sudden for her…Adi could not stop his kisses…in excitement he
grabs her pallu of saree…he things she would stop him  and should he do it so soon…but…Adi is
surprised now…Anu takes her pallu off herself….she was following rule number 2
of Riya …Adi takes of his hand from her. He says to himself why she behaving
like this…she is not even resisting…Adi feels it’s not the way it should be
…and why is behaving like such experienced in this…he thinks was Sudhir
right…he gets up sit on corner of bed….Adi in anger and feeling like betrayed,
all question mark in his mind ask Anu rudely “why u behaving like this?”…Anu
here is in no clue...What I have done now…she ask to herself…Adi not even wait
her to react and leave room. Clueless Anu have her eyes moist, tears slowly
falling….whole night she could not understand her mistake…all she was trying to
be best wife…she says to herself...”Come to reality, here everything comes by
surprise”…not like her TV serials…she can’t stop crying in those unknown walls,
who still looking her as stranger…and here adi think is all that over…or there
is some more surprises which is waiting to ruin his life….

 I hope they meet and live
together…but as unlikely situation they both have…would they come again...And…
solve their misunderstanding. Will they have happy ending…I am not that
optimistic, are u optimistic about them? Next part final one….PLZ GIVE UR
VLAUBALE COMMENT... AND WOULD U LIKE TO GUESS WHATS IN THIRD PART…LET ME KNOW UR FRANK OPNINION…

I am sharing a story of
husband and wife…they had there own surprises…story about simple things which
surprised their life and life took sharp turn…read and comment it...

 SURPRISE…… part 1

 There are some who believes
marriage is most useless think to do ,they believe its all about having kids..,
burying ur dreams and increasing worries…there is someone called Adi who
believes in this philosophy. He was pretty unaware of everything he did in his
life…he wanted to be singer…he had all planned how would be win Indian idol and
then…..then nothing. It was first
time he had reality check…we can say surprised...He was surprised...That he
sounded Kumar Sanu... and nobody interested in his voice.., surprises continued
…he thought he can’t be good in managing finance...As he was terrible with numbers.
but for surprise he did MBA and he is now one of the best research analyst .he
is doing well till now…but always thinking to revive his singing dream….he
sometimes sit-down sing for very attentive audience of …his juniors…they have
to hear. We all know..

 Adi was all set to plunge
again, to be a musical sensation…but surprise didn’t leave him ….marriage bomb
fall on him... Adi resisted, tried all means. But he did not know his mother is
best actress and wasted her life being housewife. Now see imagination of his
mother…she said Adi that ,lord Vishnu came in her dream and said she would not
live for long so complete her obligation… Adi cloud not open his mouth,
pleading eyes of her mother… he agreed to his mother’s wishes...

 Adi didn’t even see a girl...He
cam to know girl is from his native village..He was like rest his case and
ready to face punishment..Which he thought was his marriage...

 Adi believed that girl can’t
mange highly talented; dreamer husband and she would run away…he even planned
the grounds of divorce…quite intelligent...

 Adi married to Anu …on the
marriage day he first saw her…he was actually surprised. He was struck…is this
girl I am marrying…he said to himself…”uyi maa..”..

 Anu …. Anu is like typical...Stereotyped
Indian girl who been taught that greatest thing in women’s life is to serve her
husband…without a hesitation and query she obliged her parents. But she too had
dreams about her husband, like every women she too influenced never ending serials.
She started imagining her husband would be like Mihir..arey yaar apna mihir
from sas bhi kabhi bahu thi ….like innocent mind and with beautiful heart ..She
started expecting….a prince …there is nothing wrong expecting... isn’t it...BUT
Y IS THAT WHEN WE EXPECT SOMETHING, A SURPRISE FOLLOWS….

 
ITS NOT OVER HERE..NEXT PART
WITH LOT OF THEIR SURPRISE JOY AND …... PLZ
GIVE UR
VLAUBALE COMMENT..SORRY FOR TERRIBLE ENGLISH,

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This is voted as the best e-mail joke in the U S in 2002.

After being nearly snowbound for two weeks last winter,a Seattle man departed for his vacation in Miami Beach,where he was to meet his wife the next day at the conclusion of her business trip to Minneapolis. They were looking forward to pleasant weather and a nice time together. Unfortunately, there was some sort of mix up at the boarding gate, and the man was told he would have to wait for a later flight. He tried to appeal to a supervisor but was told the airline was not responsible for the problem and it would do no good to complain. Upon arrival at the hotel the next day, he discovered that Miami Beach was having a heat wave, and its weather was almost as uncomfortably hot as Seattle's was cold. The desk clerk gave him a message that his wife would arrive as planned. He could hardly wait to! get to the pool area to cool off, and quickly sent his wife an e-mail, but due to his haste, he made an error in the e-mail address. His message therefore arrived at the home of an elderly preacher's wife whose even older husband had died only the day before. When the grieving widow opened her e-mail, she took one look at the
>monitor, let out an anguished scream, and fell to the floor dead. Her family rushed to her room where they saw this message on the screen: Dearest wife, Departed yesterday as you know. Just now got checked in. Some confusion at the gate. Appeal was denied. Received confirmation of your arrival tomorrow.

Thanks for ur comments for “madness of life “!!!

I am very gr8ful for your comments, as it encourages me to share nice post with you all friends. I feel that this post” madness of life ,,,”is very much we all do in some or other manner in our life. B’coz we hardly talk to our within and we want result, that too good result, but we forget there is process, a script written by a somebody above.

Lines in” madness of life...” is not written by me, but these lines came in my life when I really needed it most. When I was seeing failures in personally and in my studies. it was time when I felt that I am good for nothing and nothing wld be good for me. I felt god is not kind to me. I use to interact in my puja room with god, use to blame for every other thing he took away form me. I lost faith in him (god) and in “myself”. I had felling no matter what effort I put, I wld be divided with zero by god. I was looking at infinity with no other answers.
As I said above he wrote a script for me, a script which I wld say made tremendous change in my life. It changed my view towards life… (?) ……this is what happens….


!! One day a family friend visited to our house, it was after 8 years we meet them. It was period I hardly come out of my room, when I am in house. I used to interact less, as I don’t want to answer their questions regarding my career and job. I can hear voice of my guest and my mom interacting. I was not even bothered to say a hi to them. Rude isn’t?.........suddenly I felt uneasy feeling, I don’t know what I felt I have to drink water. I thought twice…..” shld I go”,as I need to see their staring eyes at me. I decided, I have to. My throat was feeling uneasy.

Aunty (guest) was first to say hi!!..she had gr8 smile on her face. As when she saw me before 8 yrs I was small kid wearing half trousers moving around. I liked the response, I felt nice, and suddenly my eyes went to a kid of 11 years. He was sitting their silently moving his hand some here and there. She asked me to sit, she was asking abt my college and future plans. But when I was answering her que, I felt some suspicious abt the kid. My smile suddenly went away,he was mentally challenged kid.oh god!!! I don’t like that word….I wld say mentally unable kid. This was first time I was interacting to a person like this. I was not knwing, I was clueless….hmmmm…….as I even don’t interact with small kids…I was finding difficult.” what shld I ask him?” …all those que where in my mind…………I went in to my room, I was sad. I just on my computer I was thinking abt him.

Aunty is about to leave, my mom asked will she come in puja in temple. She calmly said “I better pray in home, as it hardly matters .as I had always prayed for nice intelligent kid,”…then she was silent…..and she said” god hears my prayers frm my home itself”. She tried to smile…….but I can find she was not blaming in any matter to god, but compromised with things and even more happy to love her only child, as she finds him most smart and able kid in earth as every other mom.

As she left I came in to my room, my eyes where moist…..I open a folder saw these lines in ppt, I read it before but never looked at it.” madness of life ..”For me now came as blessing and made me know what madness I was doing playing blame game. I cried …usually don’t…but can’t resist ……..!!

As I mentioned in first Para...” I lost faith in him(god) and in myself “,actually I lost faith in my self …that I can come up again ,,,,,that I can gain all those things I lost…..and I have to be optimistic ,for those things which was making me negative. god was always within me ,but I was unable to hear his voice…..he made me realize ,whatever he gave me best I can get,,,, ,he made me to compare with kid,,,, which made me think god has given me beautiful life and its unfair to ask for more……..now I feel I am luckiest ,happiest and optimistic.but also pray that some miracle happn and kid becomes allright,,,,,,,,which will bring lot to his mom.as frm now I even belive in miracles…hey god I hope u listening……”hello friend ,plzz yaar “.

I hope, u did understand what i meant….as my English is poor. If any mistake in language, sorry guys…waiting for ur comments….I want to know my mistakes….

It is madness...

To hate all roses,because you got scratched with one thorn...

To give up on your dreams,because one didn’t come true...

To lose faith in prayers,Because one was not answered...

To give up on your efforts,Because one of them failed...

To condemn all your friends,Because one betrayed you...


Not to believe in "LOVE",Because someone was unfaithful or didn’t love you back......

To throw away all your chances to be "Happy",
Because you did not succeed on the first attempt....


I hope that as you go on your way..........

You don’t give in to madness..............

Remembering always ...

Remembering always ...

Another friend................

A new love........

A renewed strength...


"Be persistent"

" Look for hapiness in every day"



"The sure path to failure is to give up! It is often through failure that future success come – KEEP TRYING!"

RESIGNATION

I am hereby officially tendering
my resignation as an adult.
I have decided,I would like to accept the
responsibilities of an 8 year-old again.
I want to go to McDonald's and think
that it's a four star restaurant.
I want to sail sticks across a fresh mud
puddle and make a sidewalk with rocks.
I want to think M&Ms are better than
money because you can eat them.
I want to lie under a big oak tree and
run a lemonade stand with my friends on
a hot summer's day.
I want to return to a time when life was
simple; When all you knew were colors,
multiplication tables, and nursery
rhymes, but that didn't bother you,
because you didn't know what you
didn't know and you didn't care.
All you knew was to be happy because you were blissfully unaware of,
all the things that should make you
worried or upset.
I want to think the world is fair.
That everyone is honest and good.
I want to believe that anything is
possible. I want to be oblivious
to the complexities of life and be
overly excited by the little things
again.
I want to live simple again. I
don't want my day to consist of
computer crashes, mountains of paperwork,
depressing news, how to survive more days
in the month than there is money in the
bank, doctor bills, gossip, illness,
and loss of loved ones.
I want to believe in the power of
smiles, hugs, a kind word, truth,
justice, peace, dreams, the imagination,
mankind, and making angels in the snow.
So . . . here's my checkbook
and my car-keys, my credit card bills
and my RRSP statements. I am officially
resigning from adulthood.

10th grade
As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me. She was my so called "best friend". I stared at her long, silky hair, and wished she was mine. But she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. After class, she walked up to me and asked me for the notes she had missed the day before and handed them to her. She said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.



11th grade
The phone rang. On the other end, it was her. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn't want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, one Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said "thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.



Senior year
The day before prom she walked to my locker. "My date is sick" she said; he's not going to go well, I didn't have a date, and in 7th grade, we made a promise that if neither of us had dates, we would go together just as "best friends". So we did. Prom night, after everything was over, I was standing at her front door step! I stared at her as she smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she doesn't think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said "I had the best time, thanks!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.



Graduation Day
A day passed, then a week, then a month. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn't notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone
went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and cried as I hugged her. Then she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, "you're my best friend, thanks" and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.



A Few Years Later
Now I sit in the pews of the church. That girl is getting married now. I watched her say "I do" and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn`t see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said "you came!". She said "thanks" and kissed me on the cheek. I want to tell her, I want her to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love her but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why.



Funeral
Years passed, I looked down at the coffin of a girl who used to be my "best friend". At the service, they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read:
I stare at him wishing he was mine, but he doesn't notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him, I want him to know that I don't want to be just friends, I love him but I'm just too shy, and I don't know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me!
I wish I did too... I thought to my self, and I cried.





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